Making mistakes is normal in any relationships. But letting them happen again and again can potentially ruin a relationship. A lot of women tend to over-think everything and allow their thoughts to take over their minds, which lead to over-analyzing the behaviors of their partner and making relationship mistakes.
But these mistakes can be rectified whether you are in your 20s, 30s, 40s or 50s. If you recognize that you do or have done any of these, it’s never too late. So here are the three biggest mistakes that women unconsciously make in relationships;
They Don’t Ask For What They Want
Instead, they accept what is available or asked for what they think they can get. When a woman does not ask for what she wants or what she needs and as a result, she doesn’t get it. She runs the risk of becoming bitter and resentful. Once that happens, she will invalidate and belittle her partner. This actually happens in both same-sex and old relationships.
It’s difficult to live in unfulfilled life and it’s hard to make do rather than enjoy what you desire. Women have a tendency to expect very little, so they get very little. That can lead to a permanent state of dissatisfaction, which they act out in very unloving ways.
They Gossip About Their Partner
This is a mistake that women don’t usually recognize, gossiping their partner to other people. Whether good gossip or bad gossip, talking about your partner to people outside of the relationship destroys the sacred energy within the relationship. It is perfectly okay to have that one person, even two neutral parties with whom you discuss your difficulties in order to get support, advice or guidance. But they should be your difficulties and not your partner’s bad habits, insecurities and shortcomings – that’s a straight-up gossip and those are the things you need to pray about.
Gossiping about your partner is one huge mistake women make because they do not realize that what destroys a relationship comes within the relationship, not from the outside. Gossip is a betrayal of trust and a violation of confidence.
They Fail To See Their Partner For Who They Are
Women fail to see their partner for who they are and expect them to be how people see them. We are all human and we all have our challenges, issues and weaknesses. When you deny, dismiss or avoid seeing your partner for who they really are, you will make up things about who they should be and expect them to live up to it. People are who they are and they do what they do. No one is perfect and no one is all bad. Just because someone has unusual habits doesn’t mean they can’t be loved, valued and honored.
Too often women get caught up in who their partner is not and forget the value of who their partner is. Ladies, if the thing you get is not the thing you want, don’t get upset about it. Shift your focus and see everyone for who they are and everything as it is, and then make your choice.
— LuciaCamShow🌀 (@lu__xi) 23 de febrero de 2017